Gifted And Born With Victory

A child is born into this world with victory. He is born to be bold and gifted in many areas... until his parents and the society shut those stuff down because all they want to see is that the child is "well-behaved." A well-behaved child has many things suppressed only to manifest themselves when he finds an opportunity to do so. All these while, the parents only look at his behaviour instead of the root - his identity. On the other hand, a child who openly shows his "messy" behaviour is granted an opportunity for his identity to be affirmed so that the root of his behaviour can be dealt with. Behaviour does not change identity. Identity changes behaviour. A child is crippled and crushed if our primary focus on whether a child is good is defined by his behaviour.